Help!!! I have a friend who's going away to basic training and we want to throw him a going away party. We've been compiling a list of truth/dares for a game of spin the bottle truth of dare (our own invention, though I'm sure someone else has something similar). We want dares that are sexy/embarrassing. Nudity and touching, but no actually sexual gratification in a dare, though it could lead to that (ex:7 min in heaven) Heres what we already have, please help by adding on.
Dares:
1. Switch one article of clothing with a member of the opposite sex of your choice (their choice of what articles are being switched)
2. Give a a lapdance for one song to another player (spin the bottle to select the player)
3. 7 minutes in heaven with another player (spin bottle to select player)
4. Three-way kiss with two other players (your choice)
5.Pass ice-cube to player to your right using only your mouths
6. Take a body-shot off the person to your left
7. Kiss everybody in the circle but no two kisses can be in the same place! Remember be creative!!!!!
8.Put the magic blindfold on and the bottle will choose you secret lover
9.Tell everyone to line up so you can go through the spanking machine bare assed
10.Buddy up with handcuffs for the rest of the game, remember bottle picks your fate!!!! And your fates are combined!!
11.eat a bannana or alternative fruit/vegetable from between another players legs using only your mouth
12. Demonstrate a sexual position with player of groups choice
Truths
1.What sexual activities have you not yet tried but would like to?
2.What person in this room have you always wanted to have a relationship with but haven't?
3. Would you have a threesome, and what sexes would it include, or if you have explain?
4. What sexual dream had you alomost to the edge? If you haven't had one what would get you there?
5. What words of sexual wisdom would you like to share with the group?
6. Look to the person directly opposite you and tell them how you really feel about them don't hold nothing back and please don't be nice!!
OK for one, if he old enough to be leaving for basic training, he is too old for these kind of games. Why not have a night out of playing pool, laser tag, paintball, something that can include guys and girls without being sexual. For one, the military DOES NOT put up with that kind of behavior. I am in the Air Force so I know this for a fact. Engaging in sexual misconduct is court martial material. And the games you have in mind constitutes as sexual harrassment rather the opposites sex is willing or not.
First of all, explain to me what is too old to play these kind of party games. Considering you could join the military at 17, does that make you too old? I'm 20 and I still play these games. In fact most college-age students still play these games at least occationally. Why, because it's a good way to get to know new people, and shoot the shit with old friends. It may at times take a sexual turn, but hey you can always refuse the dare. I mean lasertag and pool are fun, but so is sitting in a drunken circle with your closest friends . That fact children play this game also doesn't make it childish.
And as for being courtmartialed, that's just ignorance. The kid on non-active duty status (which means he's classified as a civilian) away from any military installation, with willing participants and a pre-basic. There's no way he'd be court-martialed unless he got in trouble with the law. In fact it's been my experience that yes, the armed forces do have strict sexual harrassment policies, BUT as long as it's off base, your out of uniform, and is not illegal, THEY DON"T CARE! If you use your head and don't make the military look bad , you can play all the drunken party games you want. I'm in the army (reservist) and know this for a fact.
