Is it ever OK to let someone know that you want to be a part of their court for their quince? My daughter is good friends with someone having a quince soon and we no longer live in the area. They've been in touch and we see them when we go back home, but she hasn't been invited to be in the court. I think It's possible that my daughter hasn't been asked because we aren't local and my daughter has a very busy schedule. They may feel it would be a hardship for us to have her participate. It would not. It would be a welcomed change of pace for her. My daughter simply would love to be a part of this as she shares the same birthday as the quinceranera. (We are not hispanic.) She simply wants to be a part of her friend's day, but we don't want to put them on the spot and we certainly don't want to crash the event. Would it be inappropriate to let her know that she wants to be in the court if she hasn't selected everyone yet? Please help.
