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Space Filler Bridesmaid
I was asked last minute to be a bridesmaid. It is obvious that I am a space filler to match up with the grooms 6 brothers. The wedding is my boyfriends stepbrothers wedding and I do not know them very well. Am I obligated to pay for the shower etc... Or can I just buy my bridesmaid dress and fill space? Please advise???
posted 03/28/05 by Konfused
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Hi,
Personally, I think that when you accept the position as a BM, you accept all the obligations, inlcuding throwing a shower. However, I guess since you're not close to them, and you're a "space filler" you dont need to be so active. You could merely ask if there's anything they need help with. (If you dont want to be a BM though, you could always just let ur BF know...)
posted 03/29/05 by Mrs Bride
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