What’s the best way to cut down my guest list without feeling terribly guilty?

Cutting your guest list can be difficult and leave you feeling yucky. The most important thing to remember is that it’s your day and most people won’t be as upset as you think they will. The best thing to do is first divide your list in to two: the people you are definitely inviting, and the people you’re on the fence about. Then with your fiancé go over the fence list and think about whether or not their presence at your wedding will really make a difference to you and if it will make a difference to them. Another thing to consider is limiting all your guests to only plus 1 and don’t allow children. If all else fails grab the list, a pen and a big bottle of vodka and see who gets scratched off first.